Wake Up Call

The great thing about having a boyfriend is that often hard to find male perspective.
Whenever I'm dating someone, I find it hard to resist the urge to say "This guy is doing X to my friend, what do you think that means?" And while I know this might make some of my girlfriends cringe, it's often a great opinion I think will help them deal with their situation.
The tables were turned one day when this guy I used to date who was VERY rude to me sent me one of those texts.
You know the texts you get from guys only when they can smell that you are happy and they want to screw up what you have going on.
This text in particular said the rude boy was coming to my area and he wanted to see me. (VOMIT)
Pre-boyfriend me would've replied to this text. I'm not sure what I would've said but I would've entertained it.
Post-boyfriend me was conflicted. I wanted to reply but I knew I needed to wait and think about the perfect way to say "F*ck you" to this guy.
So I got off work and talked to my boyfriend. He knew about this guy and everything the guy had done to me. I told him about the text and I asked, "what's his purpose?"
The boy says "He thinks your EASY or STUPID or BOTH."
I've never gotten a bigger wake up call in my life. To have a man say those words was like getting punched in the gut.
It was at that moment where I picked up my phone and deleted that text message.
He'll get no reply from me and I hope he spends the rest of his life wondering why I ignored him :)