I kept a secret from some of my friends. I'm interacting with a guy that I'm not proud to claim. You know the type...cocky asshole but for some reason you answer his calls!
I thought that by hiding my interaction with him from my friends was helping me avoid the "you're too good for him" lecture.
But all my secret did was hold up a mirror. It showed me the kind of girl I was being to tolerate the kind of man I was dealing with. Okay...the kind of man I AM dealing with.
Now I'm not saying I've cut this guy off, but I am saying...once my friends found me out, it made me realize that I've GOT to demand more of the men of my life for many reasons, but one of the most important ones is so that he can be a guy I'm proud to talk to my friends about.
Because what good is a guy if you can't gossip about him with your girls?!
i can totally interact with the line you wrote..
ReplyDelete"cocky asshole but for some reason you answer his calls!"
i have or had a boy that acts exactly like that but for some reason i cant help it but i always answer his phone calls
Men are dogs.
ReplyDeleteI dated a guy like that once, he was bad news. You can read about him over on my blog. We call him Mr. Bi-Polo =/
ReplyDeleteIve decided that you are daing Big.
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ReplyDeletefor some strange reason.. even though u r a complete stranger to me.. i quite undrstnd wat u mean... n yes wat gud is a guy in ur life if u cnt gossip abt it...
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